The Magic Of Making Up Review

Reviewer: Gary Silva
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Breaking up, as they say, is hard to do. Whether you’re the one calling it quits or the one getting the news, it never comes easy, and it never goes away immediately. So it’s understandable that a lot of people in broken romances immediately start looking for ways to make it right again. But it’s not that simple.

A lot of broken hearts immediately spin into some sort of further self-destructive behavior, such as hyper-emotional phone calls and rebound relationships.

That’s where the slightly “controversial” (in his own words) T.W. Jackson comes in.“T.Dub,” as he suggests readers call him, is the author of the eBook The Magic Of Making Up, a system designed to help
lost lovers reconnect and get back together.

Relying mostly on life experience and personal feedback, Jackson’s The Magic of Making Up is a culmination of techniques designed to lead to a healthy reuniting. And though I was skeptical at first, The Magic Of Making Up proves to be a surprisingly thoughtful semi-guide to the human heart.

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I should probably mention right off the bat that I haven’t immediately come out of a breakup — though I can clearly remember the anguish, pain, and restless nights that come immediately after. But unlike many of the customers searching for a book like Jackson’s The Magic Of Making Up, I’m not right in the middle of trying to recapture an ex. To that extent, I’m viewing the advice more critically than emotionally. I’m not on the edge of my seat hoping to read something that will instantly trigger an emotional rebound or teach me how to recapture love. But that also means I’m not trying to be overly optimistic about the book’s effects.

The very first impressions of T. Dub (besides the unfortunate self-titling) were actually quite charming. He has a smooth sense of character about him and his writing is incredibly conversational — almost like a friend giving advice instead of a doctor prescribing judgments. His book almost entirely relies on his personal experience, which may deter a lot of people.

Indeed, he comes right out and admits than many degreed relationship experts call him controversial and say his unconventional techniques have no merit based solely on his lack of proper training in the field. That being said, calling the book The Magic Of Making Up may be a bit misleading in that it suggests there is any sort of “magic” involved.

And Jackson does more than once oversell his techniques, such as the “instant reconnect technique” which he calls “psychological judo” and says there is no defense against. These types of claims are both a bit outlandish and a bit unfortunate, considering the very helpful underlying messages behind the book.

Thankfully, Jackson does make a disclaimer that this book is not intended for any stalkers, “weirdos,” or unhealthy relationship-seekers — especially those in abusive relationships. The first thing Jackson will have you do in The Magic Of Making Up is understand why people separate, be it after a few weeks or after a few decades. I found this section helpful as a great general starting place.

He also demands right out of the gate that you come to terms with a breakup and accept it as a breakup immediately. Sure, it sounds a little inhuman to skip the denial stage of loss, but Jackson has you do this while keeping in mind that admission is really the first step to getting him or her back. It’s not giving up, it’s starting over.

Then Jackson takes the reader through “getting your head on straight,” which is really the healthiest place to start. After all, there’s nothing more unattractive than an emotionally needy, depressed, obsessed ex. He offers ways to stay healthy both mentally and physically, including the foods you should eat. Once again, helpful advice belied by some of the stronger selling tactics used on the website for The Magic Of Making Up.

As you read on through The Magic Of Making Up, you’ll come to the part where you need to evaluate what it is that went wrong in your relationship so you can evaluate whether or not this is something worth trying to rekindle — since you’ve bought the book, we can safely assume you’re still leaning towards believing it is. If that’s the case, Jackson moves on to his techniques, some of which are very healthy, like the fast forward technique (designed to help you get past difficult emotions), the second chance letter, and the clean slate technique, and some of which border on manipulation, like the instant reconnect technique.

I can’t say whether or not these techniques personally work — and although Jackson likes to guarantee they do, nobody can really decide for you. It’s all a matter of how much you apply the knowledge you gain from The Magic Of Making Up. It’s like a diet: they all sound great in theory, but you won’t lose weight sitting there reading diet books. You have to get out and diet.

Nonetheless, The Magic Of Making Up has a great money-back guarantee and an even greater testimonials sheet. It’s essentially $40 worth of (almost completely) healthy advice. You’ll have to apply it to make it really work, but The Magic Of Making Up has a lot to offer broken hearts looking to right some wrongs and reignite old fires.

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